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Fighting Fat Talk: 5 Tips to Improve the Way You Think and Talk About Your Body

You deserve to see your body in a positive light and to silence your inner critic.

Sophia KellerMera Goodman, MD, FAAP
Written by Sophia Keller | Reviewed by Mera Goodman, MD, FAAP
Updated on June 3, 2025
Reviewed by Mera Goodman, MD, FAAP | June 3, 2025

You have probably heard someone talking about “feeling fat” or even comparing their bodies to others. Just like the common cold, fat talk can be contagious. It is possible to break the habit of fat talk. If negative thoughts about your body are affecting your well-being, reach out to a doctor or mental health professional for support.

Learn more about how talking negatively about any bodies (yours and others’) can impact your health here.

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Sophia Keller was an editorial intern on the GoodRx Health team. She has a bachelor’s degree in justice studies from Arizona State University.
Mera Goodman, MD, FAAP, is a board-certified pediatrician. Prior to practicing medicine, she worked as a management consultant.

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