It’s reasonable to want to put your best effort into your work, self-care, and relationships. But sometimes the fear of failure and striving for absolute perfection (which doesn’t exist) can cause mental distress.
Learn more about coping skills to relieve perfectionist tendencies here.
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For additional resources or to connect with mental health services in your area, call SAMHSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357. For immediate assistance, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988, or text HOME to 741-741 to reach the Crisis Text Line.