For Nikki Nurse and Roger Hare, individuals who live with Type 2 diabetes, asking their loved ones for help is a key part of managing their condition.
“I’ve found that by asking and leaning in on my support, they really do want to [help me],” Nurse says. “People want to support, but they just don’t know how.”
Here are some tips they feel would help them feel supported with their Type 2 diabetes:
Ask how you can help instead of waiting for them to request it: Rather than saying, “Call me if you need anything,” try asking, “What can I do to help?”
Assisting with simple household tasks may be very helpful: Whether it’s grocery shopping, housekeeping, laundry, or childcare, helping out around the house for someone with diabetes may lighten their load.
Be an accountability buddy with them for physical activity: Agree to meet them once or twice a week to do some kind of exercise together, like walking, biking, or visiting the gym.
Commit to healthier eating for the entire family: Keep family meals healthy by incorporating fresh fruits and vegetables and lean proteins. This way, you can all stay on track together.
These kinds of actions make Nurse and Hare feel supported and like they’re not alone in managing their Type 2 diabetes.
“It does take a village to get your numbers under control,” says Hare.
You can read more about Nikki’s experience with Type 2 diabetes here, and Roger’s experience with Type 2 diabetes here.
Nikki Nurse is a writer, wellness advocate, caregiver, and content creator based in Brooklyn. She covers fitness, nutrition, mental health, and personal development.
Roger Hare is a 48-year-old accountant from New Jersey who has lived with diabetes since 2019.
References
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2020). Friends, family, and diabetes.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2021). Type 2 diabetes.
Colberg, Sheri R., et al. (2010) Diabetes Care. Exercise and type 2 diabetes.
National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases. (2016). Diabetes diet, eating, and physical activity.
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